More than 50 state lawmakers support child custody law reform

#StandupforZoraya:

Children are human beings, not belongings. Children need the love, caring, nurturing, and guidance of both their mother and father throughout their lives.

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“Awarding” custody of a child to either the mother or father in divorce creates an atmosphere of contempt and competition, but more importantly it deprives the child of the benefit of the day to day nurturing of either their mother or father.

Here are OUR current campaigns:

STOP Court’s DENIAL of REASONABLE Parent/Child CONTACT
Stop Court Ordered Parental Alienation and Judicial Miscondu
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/93161-stop-courts-denial-of-reasonable-parent-child-contact

STOP ABSOLUTE DISCRETION OF FAMILY COURT JUDGES
Demanding that Family Courts fulfill public’s right to fair, efficient justice with dignity, professionalism, courtesy.
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/93160-stop-absolute-discretion-of-family-court-judges

Let’s Join Purple Keyboard Campaign 4 Family Justice Reform!
Let us make the politicians and media aware of all the knowledgewe have of Family Court and Child Protection
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/83850-lets-join-purple-keyboard-campaign-4-family-justice-reform

Adopt Uniform Parenting Time Guidelines
Repeal Inconsistent Rules and Presumptions – Ask the Family Court to adopt uniform rules requiring equal parenting time
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44294-adopt-uniform-parenting-time-guidelines

Stand Up For Zoraya
Bring awareness, celebrate, and support Father-Daughter Relationship Education
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44302-stand-up-for-zoraya

Get the News Media Attention on Family Law Reform
Children, Families and Society as a whole are being undermined by the effects Family Law Courts, Child Protection
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44303-get-the-news-media-attention-on-family-law-reform

World4Justice – Lobby Forum- Justice4Children
FAMILY JUSTICE REFORMED: DEVELOPING A NEW PROCESS AND EDUCATING THE PUBLIC, THE MEDIA, AND THE POLITICIANS.
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44305-world4justice-lobby-forum-justice4children

Bring awareness to Parental Alienation in Family Court
Parental Alienation deprives children of their right to be loved by and showing love for both of their parents
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44310-bring-awareness-to-parental-alienation-in-family-court

Reform Family Law ~ Stop Hurting Parents and Children
World4Justice : Cyber Protest! Put Family Justice and Child Welfare Reform at the top of Politicians Agenda!
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44328-reform-family-law-stop-hurting-parents-and-children

Add 28th Parental Rights Amendment to U.S. Constitution
Dedicated to the proposition that children are best served by having unfettered EQUAL access to BOTH parents.
http://www.causes.com/campaigns/44325-add-28th-parental-rights-amendment-to-u-s-constitution

Please friends, help us reach as many as we possibly can on this Demand for Reform. This is for the assistance, support, and justice which are often denied because the alienating parents we have lived with, the one who haunts our being, they still hold us captive AND ARE enabled by family court terrorist. This isn’t so much about what’s happened to us, but it is most certainly about what could happen to our children and how our entire system will view what is needed to help these potential victims and hopefully survivors find a recovery process that helps them to live on in happiness. These family court terrorist don’t realize and will never accept responsibility for their actions, so it is up to US, all persons, from these monstrous controllers. Please help and pass this forward, ask those who have been harmed, those who fight for the abused, those who speak up for the RIGHTS OF ALL LIVING BEINGS; we need to see inside these horrific abuses in our homes and the lifelong pains of those who have endured any interaction with Florida’s Family Court.

Originally posted on WWLP.com:

BOSTON, Mass. (WWLP) – Massachusetts joins nearly twenty other states in the country looking to update its child custody laws.

The Boston-based National Parents Organization believes the state’s child custody law is outdated and does not fit the modern family. The overhaul bill would allow children to spend more time with the non-custodial parent, typically the father.

President of the National Parents Organization Ned Holstein told 22News, “It decreases hostility and bitterness between parents. It treats them more fairly. It encourages judges to favor a parent who is cooperating with the other parent.”

Opponents believe the bill is centered too much on the parents and does not put enough emphasis on the children. Women’s Bar Association Kim Doughterty said, “Parents who deserve custody will get custody if it’s in the best interest of the child.”

The bill would encourage family court judges to award at least one-third of the parenting time to each parent…

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#PAS It Is Time To THINK Outside The Box! #OpExposeCPS @Fatherinme @spitalas

#StandupforZoraya:

Whatever the court setting, whether it is regarding divorce, child custody, parental support, probate matters, personal injury, property disputes, legal or medical malpractice, criminal charges, or other deeply personal issues, the frauds put forth in our courts add greatly to the trauma. When litigants are unable to get fair resolution to their issues, when the court dysfunction further adds to the litigant’s burden, when no amount of actual case law compels an equitable outcome, litigants suffer often disabling levels of stress. When further attempts to achieve redress fail, litigants display the hallmark signs of Legal Abuse Syndrome (LAS). *The concept of Legal Abuse Syndrome was brought to the attention of this writer by investigative journalist Michael Volpe, who’s completing a book on the life and suicide of ones of its victims. The book’s pre-publication title is Bullied to Death: The Chris Mackney Story. (Dr. Huffer, incidentally, invites reports of cases like this one on her website’s Contact page.)

Originally posted on World4Justice : NOW! Lobby Forum.:

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PETITION TO NEWS DIRECTORS AT @CNN, @MSNBC, @ABCNEWS, @CBSNEWS, @NBCNEWS

#StandupforZoraya:

The Family Court System operates behind closed doors with special access granted. The American people have been shut out. An American in the United States can walk into any court proceedings in a Criminal Courtroom and or proceedings in a Civil Courtroom and sit in the audience…BUT…try that in Family Court.

We respectfully urge the News Media to give this massive (Divorce) industry of $50 BILLION DOLLARS a year, the critical attention it deserves in order to inform the American people and shine a light on the injustice occurring in Family Courts that would inevitably, fundamentally alter the American economy and threaten American jobs.

Because of the the increasing use of various electronic devices including phones, tablets, and other wireless communication devices continually challenges a court’s legitimate concerns for courtroom security, participant distraction, and decorum.

Originally posted on World4Justice : NOW! Lobby Forum.:

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Everyone is given a candle that burns just for them.  When your flame flickers and you fear it will go out, know not even the strongest wind lasts forever;  and there are other lights to guide you even in the Darkness … and when your candle burns bright, you can ignite the hearts of others and hope will spread like wildfire… Always Keep Fighting, and you’ll never fight alone.

I persevere.

JUSTICE IS COMING.

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The Family Court System operates behind closed doors with special access granted. The American people have been shut out. An American in the United States can walk into any court proceedings in a Criminal Courtroom and or proceedings in a Civil Courtroom and sit in the audience…BUT…try that in Family Court.

We respectfully urge the News Media to give this massive (Divorce) industry of $50 BILLION DOLLARS a year, the critical attention it deserves…

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The role of domestic violence in parental alienation

Originally posted on Nick Woodall:

Parental alienation is the enactment of power and control over a targeted parent through a child or children by an alienating parent. To that extent, it falls within the widely accepted definitions of domestic violence and abuse (i) which are enshrined in legislation and policy around the world. However, in our experience, whilst domestic violence and abuse may be recognised as an element of the relationship between parents in dispute over children matters, the professionals who advise the courts rarely, if ever, approach the case with an understanding that a child’s rejecting position may be the extension of a pattern of domestic abuse that has been present between the parents whilst the family was together.

Around the world, domestic violence and abuse is almost exclusively set within a feminist framework which argues that it is ‘a consequence of the inequalities between men and women, rooted in patriarchal traditions that encourage…

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Courthouse Violations and PTSD: What Is “Legal Abuse Syndrome”?

#StandupforZoraya:

Whatever the court setting, whether it is regarding divorce, child custody, parental support, probate matters, personal injury, property disputes, legal or medical malpractice, criminal charges, or other deeply personal issues, the frauds put forth in our courts add greatly to the trauma. When litigants are unable to get fair resolution to their issues, when the court dysfunction further adds to the litigant’s burden, when no amount of actual case law compels an equitable outcome, litigants suffer often disabling levels of stress. When further attempts to achieve redress fail, litigants display the hallmark signs of Legal Abuse Syndrome (LAS). *The concept of Legal Abuse Syndrome was brought to the attention of this writer by investigative journalist Michael Volpe, who’s completing a book on the life and suicide of ones of its victims. The book’s pre-publication title is Bullied to Death: The Chris Mackney Story. (Dr. Huffer, incidentally, invites reports of cases like this one on her website’s Contact page.)

Originally posted on TALKING BACK to restraining orders:

This is the first post on this blog to introduce Legal Abuse Syndrome (LAS), a condition proposed by marriage and family therapist Karin P. Huffer, whose books on the subject of posttraumatic stress stemming from court-mediated violations are Overcoming the Devastation of Legal Abuse Syndrome(1995) and Legal Abuse Syndrome: 8 Steps for Avoiding the Traumatic Stress Caused by the Justice System(2013).

“Anyone who has ever worked in a legal aid office or law library has met people whose lives have come unhinged after a bad contact with the legal system. The details vary—they may have lost a business or inheritance or the custody of a child—but the common theme of feeling violated by the legal system does not. Even 20 years after losing a lawsuit, some people who suffer from Legal Abuse Syndrome still carry a suitcase of old legal papers around, desperately hoping someone will help…

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Democracy Starts When You Take a Stand

Originally posted on Brigade Blog:

About a year ago, we announced our intention to create an easy, effective, and enjoyable way for people to declare their beliefs, organize with others and take action to shape the policies and elections affecting their lives. Since then we’ve been assembling a world-class team and building and testing technologies that can help us begin to fulfill that mission. We’ve gained valuable insight from hundreds of experts in politics, technology, advocacy and academia — and now we want to learn from you.

landingpage_panel3_devicesToday Brigade is rolling out the first in a series of tools for iOS, Android and the web as an invite-only beta. It’s a place to express what you think about important issues, and see where your friends and others stand. We’ll release about a half-dozen more tools over the next year or so and we believe the 2016 campaign cycle will be a pivotal proving…

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“Reckless Disregard” A True And Compelling Story About One Father’s Fight

An Alienated Child and Targeted Parent are desperately trying to maintain a meaningful relationship.

ON January 24th, 2015 – Dad expressed concerns about Zoraya’s to three Supervised Visitation Monitor/Reporter after visit with daughter. The Supervised Visitation Supervisor Linda Fieldstone referred me back to Judge Manno-Schurr and she unjustly suspended my visits and contact with Zoraya.

It’s okay to be with one of my children but not the other???

Judge Valerie Manno-Schurr said to me on February 3rd, 2015 to “find a ‘qualified’ monitor for supervised visitation and you can see your daughter again”

~ Last contact with Zoraya – January 24th, 2015.

Over 20 people testified about the problems at the Family Courthouse -Miami-Dade on February 23rd, 2015 to 11th Judicial Circuit of Florida Chief Judge Bertila Soto , Judge Pino, Judge Lee (17th Jud Cir), and Judge Garber (3rd DCA). Ms. Sheila George and I included.

via “Reckless Disregard” A True And Compelling Story About One Father’s Fight.

Thank you so much Ngozi for sharing this article and helping me bring awareness to our cause. Thank you all who have visited, liked, and shared my blogs. What our family and many others have endured at the hands of these disturbed alienators and our family law courts is atrocious. These are our children who are suffering this abuse. It shouldn’t be happening at all but the fact that it has been going on this long is tragic. We should not be surprised at the number of deaths that occurred last week, all touched by a flawed family law system that fails to protect children and their loving parents who only want to be allowed their God-given parental rights. Family Law courts have become a joke and “In The Best Interest of Children” a grotesque punchline.
I made a promise to my daughter to never give up on her and now I am making one to her mother who has tortured an innocent soul by brainwashing our daughter. I will shout out the truth of what you and the evil, unethical, immoral, malicious, South Florida Garbage Lawyer Joel E. Greenberg (Broward) have done in “reckless disregard” to our daughter until my last breath or until you bring our daughter to my doorstep.
I promise!
Very truly yours,

David

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