Do parents spend enough time with their kids?
That was the question The Post’s Brigid Schulte posed in her story about a groundbreaking new study, which found it’s how you spend your time, not how much, that has the biggest impact on kids.
Put your kids’ interests first
Even if you are battling loneliness and depression, you need to do everything you can to prioritize the interests of your kids to make the season special.
“It’s very important that we don’t share depression and pain and anxiety about the holidays with our kids,” said Child-Centered Divorce Network founder Rosalind Sedacca. “They’re going through their own drama and the last thing we want to do is add any pain and confusion and hurt they have.”
Start by approaching your children with compassion and allow them to express their emotions.
“Let your kids vent about their feelings, their anxieties and apprehensions and frustrations and regrets and acknowledge what they’re feeling when they’re sharing that with you,” Sedacca said. “Don’t make them wrong. … What you want to do is really open that door to letting your kids know they can trust you and it’s OK for them to say whatever they say even if you don’t like hearing it.”
What does it take to raise happy, healthy, productive kids today? The number one thing is your time and attention. In a previous video, we outlined a few of the things it takes to get close to your kids so they will thrive. In this video, we show you a bit of what we do for one-on-one time with our kids. We spend quality one-on-one time with each of our kids. That special attention each one receives is really appreciated by each of the children. It is so important for you to spend this quality one-on-one time wth your kids!Ali only recently started riding a bike and within one week she decided to take the training wheels off. This was Ali’s first adventure off road on two wheels and she loved it. We had a blast in the woods but the little princess hurt herself a few times. Thanks for watching and if you enjoyed this video and want to see more like it then please leave a comment below.
Maximizing Time With Your Kids
Well it’s the holiday’s folks and you know what that means: lots of food, relatives you may only seen once or twice a year and that tornado of wrapping paper left in the wake of presents being unwrapped while parents desperately cling to their coffee cups. For some however, the holidays can be a stressful time if you’re not getting the time you need with your children. The holidays are about coming together; spending time with loved ones can take on a whole new meaning if you’re cut off from them. For parents that are split up it’s even harder to juggle who gets to be with who on Christmas day. If you’re finding yourself stressing about how much time you’ll get to spend with your kids this holiday season, here are some tips to help maximize the time you spend together.
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