Looking for PAS Support?

However, beware, you may find yourself in more conflict with some folks on these forums than with the alienation.

Saddest thing in the world - 2016First you should decide what type of group you want to be a part.  Support?  Do you want to find people to lift you up when you are down, or tell you their experiences and what worked or did not work for them?  Maybe you just want to spread awareness about the family court system and the pitfalls one can easily fall in to?  Maybe you would much rather join an organization that already has its feet in the water in order to bring about change.  Whatever it is you are looking for, try to find a specific group.  It is my experience that when these topics are mixed, then more conflict and in-fighting arises, and I’m sure that more conflict is the LAST thing you are looking for.


So, browse Facebook.  Contact your local Parental Alienation awareness organization.  Search Meetup.com.  Google, Google, Google.  facebookHey, if you can’t find what you’re looking for you can always start your own!

Here’s a tip:  Try not to get sucked into the heated debates, arguments, and instigators’ ploys to upset you; they very, very rarely make anyone change their minds.  Although, I have to say I’ve personally learned a lot about people in the PAS community by getting sucked in, and therefore it has broadened my understanding of this whole conundrum; although I’ve never felt good after getting sucked in.

Good luck!

Guys With Kids This Site Came Into Being And Exists Today Because Someone Survived Legal Abuse Syndrome ~ “I became depressed, physically ill and seriously suicidal after experiencing the insanity of litigation. I lost my home and was sent to the street with nothing but the clothes on my back. Literally everything I owned was gone for several years. I fought my fight to points of exhaustion where all I could do was stare into space. Friends had left; I was emotionally isolated and normal living activities were no longer normal. Rage doesn’t come close to describing the feelings I lived with for years. Even this is far from the full story of how bad it got.” — The Founder Of Caught.net and The Pro Se Way

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So, you’ve been Googling the web for information on Parental Alienation because you are at your wit’s end.  Maybe you’re caught up in the court system with a plethora of professionals who are Ordered to be a part of your heartbreaking “custody battle”?  Maybe you just left your house and are desperately trying to find out what the heck is going on with your kids?  Maybe you are still living in your house, with your abusive spouse, and your children are turning on you and taking on your spouses persona?

Your goal is to find a community of people who understand your situation.  Maybe you are looking for support, or to become active in spreading awareness, or possibly educating others who are going through this.  So where do you look?  There are countless Facebook pages, Yahoo Groups, various Meetups, and Organizations throughout the country that can provide support.  However, beware…

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  1. Children’s Bill of Rights

    WHEN PARENTS ARE NOT TOGETHER

    Every kid has rights, particularly when mom and dad are splitting up. Below are some things parents shouldn’t forget — and kids shouldn’t let them — when the family is in the midst of a break-up.

    You have the right to love both your parents. You also have the right to be loved by both of them. That means you shouldn’t feel guilty about wanting to see your dad or your mom at any time. It’s important for you to have both parents in your life, particularly during difficult times such as a break-up of your parents.

    You do not have to choose one parent over the other. If you have an opinion about which parent you want to live with, let it be known. But nobody can force you to make that choice. If your parents can’t work it out, a judge may make the decision for them.

    You’re entitled to all the feelings you’re having. Don’t be embarrassed by what you’re feeling. It is scary when your parents break up, and you’re allowed to be scared. Or angry. Or sad. Or whatever.

    You have the right to be in a safe environment. This means that nobody is allowed to put you in danger, either physically or emotionally. If one of your parents is hurting you, tell someone — either your other parent or a trusted adult like a teacher.

    You don’t belong in the middle of your parents’ break-up. Sometimes your parents may get so caught up in their own problems that they forget that you’re just a kid, and that you can’t handle their adult worries. If they start putting you in the middle of their dispute, remind them that it’s their fight, not yours.

    Grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins are still part of your life. Even if you’re living with one parent, you can still see relatives on your other parent’s side. You’ll always be a part of their lives, even if your parents aren’t together anymore.

    You have the right to be a child. Kids shouldn’t worry about adult problems. Concentrate on your school work, your friends, activities, etc. Your mom and dad just need your love. They can handle the rest.

    IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT AND DON’T BLAME YOURSELF.

    —-Special Concerns of Children Committee, March, 1998

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